i dont understand my parents. my brother didnt do jack most of his life and he made my parents pay for all his crap. i started work right when i turned 16 and payed for pretty much everything. however, when it comes to stuff like paying for dentist stuff, sat, act, college apps, i would ask my parents, but instead, they yelled at me saying why they should pay for stuff that’s mine, even when i didn’t have a job (my parents made me quit for a semester to study more for school) they said this. what the hell? i never ask them for money, and the very few times i do, it’s for things that i feel like a parent should pay for. am i wrong about this? please do tell me if i am because i really want to understand. by all means, i love my brother to death and i know my parents work very hard, but i just don’t think its fair how my parents STILL pay my brother’s crap when hes 24 in august. that’s just sad. my mom pays for his clothes, my parents paid for his apartment for the longest time, and they give him money when he asks bc they say he needs it. wtf? what do you mean? why cant he use the money that he worked for? yes, i would understand if they said that if he was trying his best to make ends meet and worked his butt off but still couldn’t make enough money, but he DOESNT! another thing, my brother cant go to seattle bc he cant pay for it, so out of pity, my parents said theyll pay for his ticket. what about me? i paid for my seattle ticket and my cali ticket, but luckily, my brother in law and my sister paid for my cali ticket out of pity. isnt that kind of sad that my brother in law, who is not even part of my immediate family, decided to do this but not my parents? i hate to be bitter towards my brother and especially towards my parents (bc they work so hard) over a paperish substance called money, but i am. they baby the hell out of him. no wonder it took my brother this long to somewhat-ish buckle down. he still doesnt act like an adult. ugh im so annoyed.
whats been going on in my life during this time…..
…..thats about it…sighh i wish i was a kid again